Long nails can trap dirt and germs, as well as result in scratches for your child (and other people). Also, toenails that grow too long run the risk of becoming ingrown, and that can really hurt. To make the toddler grooming process go as smoothly as possible, use these tips and tricks for a quick and painless mani-pedi.

If your child is scared, casually take out the nail clippers to use on yourself, your partner, and any siblings, and let your child watch as you all survive, unscathed. Show a positive attitude and by the time you finish giving yourself a manicure, your toddler may be begging for a turn.

Keeping children’s nails short keeps most dirt from getting stuck, but even short nails end up accumulating some gunk. A thorough bedtime hand washing will remove most of this, but if you spot some stubborn stuff, gently use a rounded wooden toothpick or a scrubbing brush.

Nail clippers or baby nail scissors with rounded, blunt edges are best for trimming toddler nails.

Play games. Pretend your toddler’s fingers are a family with parents and children who need their “hair” cut (snip, snip). Sing your toddler’s favorite song with a nail-related twist (“The Itsy Bitsy Finger Went to the Nail Salon”). He’ll have such a good time he may forget to be frightened.

Warm water softens up nails — and toddlers, who usually mellow out after a soak in the tub, making them more amenable to a trim. Try to schedule the nail cutting for just after the bath.

Do a few at a time. There’s no rule that says you have to finish all in one sitting. If your toddler dashes off before you’ve finished the first hand, try again later, or even the next day.